how to make GECA feel loved. [again, this is in no particular order]

1. greet her good night and good morning. she feels special when somebody makes an effort by doing that. a simple text would do.

2. when she says she loves you more, fight back. kahit abutin kayo ng jupiter kakaaway kung sinong mas nagmamahal:)

3. don’t give her flowers, and living creatures. ) a simple card or a small stuff toy would do. the price doesn’t matter just make her feel special, by giving her extraordinary gifts [even the cheapest gift would do. basta kakaiba. hindi yung typical na flowers and chocolates. anong tingin mo sakin? tulad ng ibang babae?]

4. give her time to miss you. kapag namiss ka na niya, magpakita ka:)

5. GIVE HER SURPRISES. any girl would love that. do everything to wow her all the time:)

6. kapag may okasyon, don’t ask her if she wants a gift. she’ll say “no, just seeing you is enough”.

7. let her take all the picture she wants:)

8. forgive her for her mistakes.

9. give her a huge teddy bear while seeing fireworks

10. treat her like your princess, fairy, queen, goddess. whatever, basta not the typical girl.

11.when she says “don’t talk to me” or any other thing similar to that… tell her you’re sorry.. and please, MEAN IT!

[date today :may 7, 2008]

12. she’s such a sleepyhead kaya kung makatulugan ka niya pag dinadamayan mo siya sa kanyang mga ekspidisyon kasama ang mga libro at notebook, endless research at takot sa tahimik at dilim, dapat di ka magtatampo. kasi nga, gabi na. at iba ang body clock niya, kasi 7.00 pa lang, pagod na siya. antukin yan eh:))

13. wag mo siyang intaying magIM, magtext or tumawag sa’yo. HINDI NIYA GAGAWIN YUN! unless siya na lang gising sa bahay nila at nangangatog na siya sa takot or may kailangan sabihin. ) always do the first move. kasi kung hindi, patatagan tayo, walang mangyayari, dude.

14. trust her, kapag mahal ka niya, mahal ka niya. di ka pagpapalit niyan. unless mafall out of love.

15. tell her the truth. pero i-sugarcoat naman. kunyari imbis na “hey, ang pangit ng gawa mo” sabihin mong “girl, maiimprove mo pa yan” )

16. she wakes up early in the morning. [4.45am pag may pasok, 8-10am kapag wala at pag summer 6-7am] so balik ka sa number 1, tapos make sure na mauunahan mo siya, para magreet mo siya )

17. PROVE HER THAT YOU LOVE HER. in any way. bahala ka. basta kailangan maprove mo sakaniya na TOTOO KA, at hindi mo siya ipagpapalit. na safe siya sayo at walang ibang makakahadlang sayo:)

18. magulo kausap yan. madalas makulit yan, kaya dapat alam mo kung kelan siya seryoso, kelan siya hindi. hindi yung kailangan niya pang sabihin na “di nga, seryoso…” matutong makiramdam

19. she loves reading, kaya don’t call her nerd kapag may sinasabi siyang alien sa pandinig mo. lalo na pag science terms. she loves science and hates math. okay? she loves english too [duh, mahilig nga pagbasa] saka pagnagstart na magexplain yan, hanap ka na lang ng paraan para mapatigil siya. okay? and oh, she loves filipino too )

20. SHE LOVES PENGUINS! wala lang, makiride ka sakaniya. okay?:)) kunyari gusto mo rin ng penguin. or ng polar bear or ng….. kahit anong nasa yelo! hahaha, basta makiride ka. kasi baliw yan. siya yung tipo ng tao na pati seryosong bagay lalagyan ng penguin [e.g. homeworks and projects=))]

[date edited: June 23, 2008]

21. kapag nagpramdam yan, wag mo agad iend yung usapan. kasi it means na she’s bored. at kailangan niya ng kausap. di naman nagrereply yan kapag ayaw niya ng kausap eh.

22. make it a habit to read her blog. i know it’s boring, kasi kung anu-ano lang sinasabi niya rito. pero siyempre, it makes her happy to know that there’s someone wasting his/her time in reading the senseless blog. and one more thing: dont forget to comment!

23. wag mo siyang utusan. and dont tell her na its not utos, instead it’s a favor. kasi hindi ganun yun. she’s happy and BUSY with her studies, so wala siyang time for petty things done for someone. unless you’re super important to her. pero kung gusto mo siya makuha, super hindi mo dapat gawin to. [this includes comments. lalo na kung lagi na lang. once or twice is okay, more than that, ewan ko na]

24. she says “super” a lot. intindihin mo na lang

25. make her feel important [halos parehas lang sa iba] yung kahit busy ka, kunyari may time ka for her.

[date edited: july 5, 2008]